Can you believe she weighs that much? OMG she has way to much make up on! She/He only works out to get attention! He/She's so skinny she needs to gain some weight! I can't believe she walked out the house wearing that, as fat as she is! He is so ugly what was he thinking wearing that! Can you believe she works out 4 days a week, has her hair done and pampers herself, who's she trying to impress?
These are just a few of the things I have actually heard people say. It doesn't even come close to how critical we are of others! I am amazed at how defensive we are if someone says something about our hair, body, make-up,outfit but we are often quick to criticize not only the "over-weight" or "ugly" but even the "gorgeous" its crazy. No wonder no one is happy with themselves!
First thing I have to say is..."QUIT BEING SO NEGATIVE" Worry more about building self esteem, helping people to be health, not perfect. Let people have their own style, who cares if its not yours or what is considered fashionable!
Second thing is "NONE OF US ARE PERFECT, INCLUDING YOU" so the only thing I can say is the only reason you find yourself gossiping about others is that your insecure about yourself (OK go ahead start your argument!) But truly the only reason we pick at others is usually about something within ourselves. So while your busy building up the other person self esteem work on your own also. Trust me it will work! If you think you don't have a self esteem issue but you put down others...that's where you need to start...ADMIT IT! 1st step on any road!!
What I am getting at is people need to stop judging people and start building people, which includes yourself! I am so tired of hearing people but everyone else down, no one is perfect and there is a lesson in everything we do so try to learn something positive. You have no idea the reason behind anyone single person you make fun of, and they don't know yours either. Just remember change has to start with yourself and not waiting until someone else does it...that's what everyone else is waiting on...Be the leader!
Friday, December 27, 2013
Tuesday, December 10, 2013
I am starting to think people like misery...so they can complain...maybe?
Everywhere you turn, people are miserable, they hate their job, their husband isn't doing this, the wife is a nag, life sucks, I have no money, my kids are terrible, I hate the Holidays its so stressful, and on and on about just about everything. This world sucks, everyone is selfish, no one thinks of others...well hate to break it to you...then your in that category!
Well I am going to break it to you Gently...If that's possible! But some people need the YOU are your problem. YOUR attitude, YOUR Choices. Its plain and simple if you don't like it, change it! If someone wronged you, don't be bitter and let it consume you....fix your attitude and move on. Hate your Job, there is options and quit making excuses...yes you may have to work harder, you might have to start at the bottom but if HAPPINESS is truly what your after its worth it.
Change isn't easy but excuses are! Every day you spend in your same situation is another day you waste on a life you hate. The journey out of all the complaining, negativity might not be a cupcake walk but it will change your life...so crawl, take a step every day towards changing your life not wasting your life. Everyone and YES I mean everyone has had some obstacle they have either overcome or let it come over them!
YOU always have a choice, YOU can always change it, YOU can make a difference and YES you have to take responsibility for the way your life has gone, no one else decided it for you! If your stuck, get help! if you don't know how ....start learning how to! Go Back to School, Start disciplining your kids, Starting beginning nice to your other half, Start working 2 jobs if you have to or get a new one...but do whatever you have to do to change it....or be stuck where you are!
Trust me I know. I have been stuck in the same job and blamed everything else. I repeatedly said i couldn't because I made to much money to change, I didn't have the skills to do anything else, I don't have anyone to help me with my child, I didn't have the time...BOY I had some great excuses as to why I couldn't and that it was life that was so harsh and then I had a reality CHECK! NO ONE WAS KEEPING ME IN THIS LIFE EXCEPT ME!!!
So I went back to school, started my own business and even though I am still working at a career that I don't like, My Attitude is way different because I know I am on my way to changing my life!
If you want to make a change you will, if you don't then you must like your life MORE than you want to change....or wait you can give me the same excuses I gave and it still doesn't get you anywhere but a few more people that are tired of listening to you whine!
YOU can change anything in your life...Start with your Attitude! Its huge difference in your outlook on life. Be Positive, Go help others, worry less about yourself and more about others. Seek yourself and learn compassion, love and understanding..for you and others. Be a better person from the inside out! Don't let life drag you down, shoot for the Moon!
If you seek an excuse you will find one, if you seek a way out you will find one...Choice is yours and yours alone! Make a Choice to help yourself, and then pay it forward and show someone else (including your kids) how to live a happy healthy life and go for your dreams!
I am choosing to be positive, happy and getting myself in a better place! Join me
www.seacretdirect.com/sjhanson or post a comment!
Well I am going to break it to you Gently...If that's possible! But some people need the YOU are your problem. YOUR attitude, YOUR Choices. Its plain and simple if you don't like it, change it! If someone wronged you, don't be bitter and let it consume you....fix your attitude and move on. Hate your Job, there is options and quit making excuses...yes you may have to work harder, you might have to start at the bottom but if HAPPINESS is truly what your after its worth it.
Change isn't easy but excuses are! Every day you spend in your same situation is another day you waste on a life you hate. The journey out of all the complaining, negativity might not be a cupcake walk but it will change your life...so crawl, take a step every day towards changing your life not wasting your life. Everyone and YES I mean everyone has had some obstacle they have either overcome or let it come over them!
YOU always have a choice, YOU can always change it, YOU can make a difference and YES you have to take responsibility for the way your life has gone, no one else decided it for you! If your stuck, get help! if you don't know how ....start learning how to! Go Back to School, Start disciplining your kids, Starting beginning nice to your other half, Start working 2 jobs if you have to or get a new one...but do whatever you have to do to change it....or be stuck where you are!
Trust me I know. I have been stuck in the same job and blamed everything else. I repeatedly said i couldn't because I made to much money to change, I didn't have the skills to do anything else, I don't have anyone to help me with my child, I didn't have the time...BOY I had some great excuses as to why I couldn't and that it was life that was so harsh and then I had a reality CHECK! NO ONE WAS KEEPING ME IN THIS LIFE EXCEPT ME!!!
So I went back to school, started my own business and even though I am still working at a career that I don't like, My Attitude is way different because I know I am on my way to changing my life!
If you want to make a change you will, if you don't then you must like your life MORE than you want to change....or wait you can give me the same excuses I gave and it still doesn't get you anywhere but a few more people that are tired of listening to you whine!
YOU can change anything in your life...Start with your Attitude! Its huge difference in your outlook on life. Be Positive, Go help others, worry less about yourself and more about others. Seek yourself and learn compassion, love and understanding..for you and others. Be a better person from the inside out! Don't let life drag you down, shoot for the Moon!
If you seek an excuse you will find one, if you seek a way out you will find one...Choice is yours and yours alone! Make a Choice to help yourself, and then pay it forward and show someone else (including your kids) how to live a happy healthy life and go for your dreams!
I am choosing to be positive, happy and getting myself in a better place! Join me
www.seacretdirect.com/sjhanson or post a comment!
Monday, December 2, 2013
RUUUUNNNNNN She joined an MLM!~
It seems lately that ever since I joined with my new company Seacret and word got out that I am having parties and asking my friends and family to support my new business, I am an outcast. People Stop returning my calls, texts, ignore my emails, invites and all things related to me! WHY? Because they are afraid to say no, or maybe they don't want me to bother them?, or could be they are broke? Who knows the real reason but there are many of them that have left with the crickets chirping.
I guess I understand no one wants to hurt my feelings, but honestly ignore me is that worse part. I would rather someone tell me they want to be my friend and they would love to hear more, but probably won't buy anything. If we are friends shouldn't they be able to tell me that?
I dunno it makes me sad that my friends won't listen to my business that I am so extremely excited about, I mean a chance to make more money, to be home with Kayla more, to pay off my debt? If I got another promotion most of those people would be buying me dinner or a drink to celebrate but doing an MLM....NOPE not the same. I wonder why that is, really? This is better than any JOB I've had but sadly many ignore me, in fear I may ask them to buy something or try to run a business with me.
IF Target, Wal-mart or any other retailer runs an ad...we all take off on Turkey day to go get it, but a friend invites to a party to help support them, and other local business, and you are to busy? Its just hard for me but I am sure we all have our reasons.
If you want the truth people we would love it if you would buy all our products host a thousand parties for us but in all honesty your support is what matter. Answering the phone and saying that your excited for me. Even coming to a party or hosting one just to show your support. Many times we know that you aren't interested but maybe you know someone who is, or maybe that one person that comes to the party you hosted for us, signs up. That's money that feeds my family, put a roof over our head. I understand not all are going to be interested but to not even take the time to see if what I offer IS something you might like or maybe your neighbor, relative or friend could benefit.
In my JOB, as an Insurance agent, people refer customers to me all the time (and I usually insure them also), why not about skincare? Instead of sending them to buy from a stranger or big box store, how about a friend trying to get ahead?
Many of us MLM, business owners, Stay at home people, working part time to pay the bills just need support, maybe advice on our sales pitch, could be we just need to practice. We all would love your support not just in money, but party hosting, referrals, or just an encouraging word that you notice how hard your friend is working.
I guess I understand no one wants to hurt my feelings, but honestly ignore me is that worse part. I would rather someone tell me they want to be my friend and they would love to hear more, but probably won't buy anything. If we are friends shouldn't they be able to tell me that?
I dunno it makes me sad that my friends won't listen to my business that I am so extremely excited about, I mean a chance to make more money, to be home with Kayla more, to pay off my debt? If I got another promotion most of those people would be buying me dinner or a drink to celebrate but doing an MLM....NOPE not the same. I wonder why that is, really? This is better than any JOB I've had but sadly many ignore me, in fear I may ask them to buy something or try to run a business with me.
IF Target, Wal-mart or any other retailer runs an ad...we all take off on Turkey day to go get it, but a friend invites to a party to help support them, and other local business, and you are to busy? Its just hard for me but I am sure we all have our reasons.
If you want the truth people we would love it if you would buy all our products host a thousand parties for us but in all honesty your support is what matter. Answering the phone and saying that your excited for me. Even coming to a party or hosting one just to show your support. Many times we know that you aren't interested but maybe you know someone who is, or maybe that one person that comes to the party you hosted for us, signs up. That's money that feeds my family, put a roof over our head. I understand not all are going to be interested but to not even take the time to see if what I offer IS something you might like or maybe your neighbor, relative or friend could benefit.
In my JOB, as an Insurance agent, people refer customers to me all the time (and I usually insure them also), why not about skincare? Instead of sending them to buy from a stranger or big box store, how about a friend trying to get ahead?
Many of us MLM, business owners, Stay at home people, working part time to pay the bills just need support, maybe advice on our sales pitch, could be we just need to practice. We all would love your support not just in money, but party hosting, referrals, or just an encouraging word that you notice how hard your friend is working.
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