Everywhere you turn, people are miserable, they hate their job, their husband isn't doing this, the wife is a nag, life sucks, I have no money, my kids are terrible, I hate the Holidays its so stressful, and on and on about just about everything. This world sucks, everyone is selfish, no one thinks of others...well hate to break it to you...then your in that category!
Well I am going to break it to you Gently...If that's possible! But some people need the YOU are your problem. YOUR attitude, YOUR Choices. Its plain and simple if you don't like it, change it! If someone wronged you, don't be bitter and let it consume you....fix your attitude and move on. Hate your Job, there is options and quit making excuses...yes you may have to work harder, you might have to start at the bottom but if HAPPINESS is truly what your after its worth it.
Change isn't easy but excuses are! Every day you spend in your same situation is another day you waste on a life you hate. The journey out of all the complaining, negativity might not be a cupcake walk but it will change your life...so crawl, take a step every day towards changing your life not wasting your life. Everyone and YES I mean everyone has had some obstacle they have either overcome or let it come over them!
YOU always have a choice, YOU can always change it, YOU can make a difference and YES you have to take responsibility for the way your life has gone, no one else decided it for you! If your stuck, get help! if you don't know how ....start learning how to! Go Back to School, Start disciplining your kids, Starting beginning nice to your other half, Start working 2 jobs if you have to or get a new one...but do whatever you have to do to change it....or be stuck where you are!
Trust me I know. I have been stuck in the same job and blamed everything else. I repeatedly said i couldn't because I made to much money to change, I didn't have the skills to do anything else, I don't have anyone to help me with my child, I didn't have the time...BOY I had some great excuses as to why I couldn't and that it was life that was so harsh and then I had a reality CHECK! NO ONE WAS KEEPING ME IN THIS LIFE EXCEPT ME!!!
So I went back to school, started my own business and even though I am still working at a career that I don't like, My Attitude is way different because I know I am on my way to changing my life!
If you want to make a change you will, if you don't then you must like your life MORE than you want to change....or wait you can give me the same excuses I gave and it still doesn't get you anywhere but a few more people that are tired of listening to you whine!
YOU can change anything in your life...Start with your Attitude! Its huge difference in your outlook on life. Be Positive, Go help others, worry less about yourself and more about others. Seek yourself and learn compassion, love and understanding..for you and others. Be a better person from the inside out! Don't let life drag you down, shoot for the Moon!
If you seek an excuse you will find one, if you seek a way out you will find one...Choice is yours and yours alone! Make a Choice to help yourself, and then pay it forward and show someone else (including your kids) how to live a happy healthy life and go for your dreams!
I am choosing to be positive, happy and getting myself in a better place! Join me
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