No Wonder everyone hates their bodies!

Can you believe she weighs that much?  OMG she has way to much make up on! She/He only works out to get attention!  He/She's so skinny she needs to gain some weight! I can't believe she walked out the house wearing that, as fat as she is! He is so ugly what was he thinking wearing that!  Can you believe she works out 4 days a week, has her hair done and pampers herself, who's she trying to impress?

These are just a few of the things I have actually heard people say. It doesn't even come close to how critical we are of others! I am amazed at how defensive we are if someone says something about our hair, body, make-up,outfit but we are often quick to criticize  not only the "over-weight" or "ugly" but even the "gorgeous" its crazy. No wonder no one is happy with themselves!

First thing I have to say is..."QUIT BEING SO NEGATIVE" Worry more about building self esteem, helping people to be health, not perfect. Let people have their own style, who cares if its not yours or what is considered fashionable! 

Second thing is "NONE OF US ARE PERFECT, INCLUDING YOU" so the only thing I can say is the only reason you find yourself gossiping about others is that your insecure about yourself (OK go ahead start your argument!) But truly the only reason we pick at others is usually about something within ourselves. So while your busy building up the other person self esteem work on your own also. Trust me it will work! If you think you don't have a self esteem issue but you put down others...that's where you need to start...ADMIT IT! 1st step on any road!!

What I am getting at is people need to stop judging people and start building people, which includes yourself!  I am so tired of hearing people but everyone else down, no one is perfect and there is a lesson in everything we do so try to learn something positive. You have no idea the reason behind anyone single person you make fun of, and they don't know yours either. Just remember change has to start with yourself and not waiting until someone else does it...that's what everyone else is waiting on...Be the leader!